Is looking forward to things good for us?

What if we told you all the time you have been spending looking forward to all the wonderful vacations, holidays, finish lines, and good times is actually helping

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What did you change your mind about this year?

A lot of the focus around New Years is about what you learned this year and what you want to create for next year.  We have a slightly

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Objects in mirror are closer than they appear

Similarly, anger unexperienced seems larger than it is. It’s kind of like the monster under the bed.  When you get down on your knees and look it straight

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Polite or Truthful?

Do you ever lie to avoid another’s disappointment? Here’s an example: Instead of saying I don’t want to go to the graduation, you say, "Oh sorry, I have

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Embracing Complexity

We are nuanced and complicated creatures.  And of course, so are the situations we are in and create.  Have you ever noticed that often people with the strongest,

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Are you judging from the sidelines?

We are nuanced and complicated creatures.  And of course, so are the situations we are in and create.  Have you ever noticed that often people with the strongest,

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Important questions to ask yourself

If you notice that you’re being controlling, hypercritical, or manipulative, pause… ask yourself, am I frightened about something? If you’re feeling bored, jealous, guilty, shame, or impatient, pause…

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Building Courage Muscles

You know those moments when there is something you want to say or a conversation you think needs to be started, something you know in your bones is

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Do you get what you resist?

Have you ever noticed that you get what you resist?  Take a look right now.  If you can’t see it in your own life, look around you at

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What it takes to maintain the right form

Have you ever tried to address an issue with your posture or perhaps how to perform an exercise, like a squat, using the proper form?  When you take

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