Breaking a habit

One of the things we often hear from our clients when they are frustrated about changing an unworkable pattern is that they struggle to apply what they have

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How long is too long to stay undecided?

A prolonged period of indecision can have a terribly draining effect on us.  We’re sure you’ve experienced being on the fence about something and feeling a great relief when

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Let’s talk about commitment

An easy example of commitment is marriage.  If you are married, you have made a commitment to your spouse.  Nonetheless, you can have arguments, you can hate each other for

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Let it be or suppress it?

It’s pretty common these days for people to talk about sitting with a feeling or allowing “negative” thoughts without resisting them.  It is in the zeitgeist, whereas just 10-15

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Simple is different than easy

There are a lot of things that are simple but not easy.  The instructions can be simple, for example, eat less processed foods. It’s perhaps simple and probably

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What does it take to listen?

Artists who are looking to recreate life-like images of either landscapes, people or any kind of object that we see in reality, have to constantly battle with what

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Maintenance vs. Problem Solving

Let’s talk about feelings and tooth decay!  You didn’t know you wanted that, did you?!  If your tooth has decay we can all agree that you are past the point

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The cost of hiding from our feelings

We tend to go on about growing your capacity to feel your feelings.  That might sound very abstract to some of you.  All we mean is simply, allowing ourselves to

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We do not suffer our feelings, we suffer our resistance to our feelings

If you want to be your own Workability Consultant or you are feeling particularly stuck and can’t seem to figure out why, one massively useful question to ask

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Making comparisons is a losing game

Winning the daily comparison game (being better than the next person) is like getting Monopoly money.  No matter how much of it you get, it is still useless

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